A few years ago my husband was encouraged to apply for a job in Seattle, so he did. I said I was ambivalent about moving:
- Clare’s there.
- Andrew’s here.
- All our friends are here.
- The PNW is breathtaking.
It was very close but when he learned that someone else got the job I was secretly delighted.
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Change is hard.
Luckily we didn’t have to change.
Sometimes, it’s nice to have decisions taken away from you.
Agreed!